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	<title>Comments on: discipline/discipling&#8230;</title>
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		<title>By: Janice</title>
		<link>http://www.emergingparents.com/2007/10/disciplinediscipling/comment-page-1/#comment-65</link>
		<dc:creator>Janice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Oct 2007 15:21:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think the connection, in my house, between discipline and how I disciple or the discipling relationship is that they actually are one in the same. What I mean is that I don&#039;t view them as two separate things and my way of dealing with behavior isn&#039;t about punishment. Its about learning and growth.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;As far as how it all relates to my own growth...oh my, how much time do you have? For me as I relate to my kids and share with them what I believe about God I engage the principles myself in a new way. Sometimes that means I find a different nuance or application in my life and sometimes I see where my thinking may be flawed. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;The other big thing that I find happens is that as I reflect on my conversations with my children or as I chew over them with God at a later time, I find that I am often convicted of who I &#039;should&#039; be in terms of representing Jesus to my children. A better way of saying it might be by giving an example - for instance, as I was driving and talking to God about some things, I was asking God to really make himself known to my daughter in a certain area and I had one of those striking light bulb moments - this one saying &#039;thats what you are there for! I&#039;m making myself known through you!&#039; - a reminder that we ARE (should be in some way) representations of Christ. Its an &#039;aha moment&#039; ya know? I think most people &#039;know&#039; that, but in terms of real life, how often do people ask God to step in or show someone something....&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;In my life, I have these little aha moments most often through parenting. I believe its a connection, for me, of the whole imagery of God as &#039;parent&#039; (father).&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Anyway, for me, acknowledging these aha moments results in some transformation in me, no matter how small.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the connection, in my house, between discipline and how I disciple or the discipling relationship is that they actually are one in the same. What I mean is that I don&#8217;t view them as two separate things and my way of dealing with behavior isn&#8217;t about punishment. Its about learning and growth.</p>
<p>As far as how it all relates to my own growth&#8230;oh my, how much time do you have? For me as I relate to my kids and share with them what I believe about God I engage the principles myself in a new way. Sometimes that means I find a different nuance or application in my life and sometimes I see where my thinking may be flawed. </p>
<p>The other big thing that I find happens is that as I reflect on my conversations with my children or as I chew over them with God at a later time, I find that I am often convicted of who I &#8217;should&#8217; be in terms of representing Jesus to my children. A better way of saying it might be by giving an example &#8211; for instance, as I was driving and talking to God about some things, I was asking God to really make himself known to my daughter in a certain area and I had one of those striking light bulb moments &#8211; this one saying &#8216;thats what you are there for! I&#8217;m making myself known through you!&#8217; &#8211; a reminder that we ARE (should be in some way) representations of Christ. Its an &#8216;aha moment&#8217; ya know? I think most people &#8216;know&#8217; that, but in terms of real life, how often do people ask God to step in or show someone something&#8230;.</p>
<p>In my life, I have these little aha moments most often through parenting. I believe its a connection, for me, of the whole imagery of God as &#8216;parent&#8217; (father).</p>
<p>Anyway, for me, acknowledging these aha moments results in some transformation in me, no matter how small.</p>
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		<title>By: jeff greer</title>
		<link>http://www.emergingparents.com/2007/10/disciplinediscipling/comment-page-1/#comment-64</link>
		<dc:creator>jeff greer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Oct 2007 05:06:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am amazed how much i learn about myself and about God as I am dealing with and relating to my 3 year old daughter.  I am constantly reminded of my own disobedience, when I am trying to teach my daughter obedience.  I am reminded of God&#039;s amazing grace when I get frustrated at my daughter for ignoring me and when I ask her to do something.  I am also reminded of my own struggles in life when I realize that at times I have to cause my daughter to experience something she doesn&#039;t like to help her to learn more, like a time-out, or taking something away from her, or any other discipline.  Being a parent is one of the greatest ways God teaches me about many things.  It is very eye-opening for me for sure!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am amazed how much i learn about myself and about God as I am dealing with and relating to my 3 year old daughter.  I am constantly reminded of my own disobedience, when I am trying to teach my daughter obedience.  I am reminded of God&#8217;s amazing grace when I get frustrated at my daughter for ignoring me and when I ask her to do something.  I am also reminded of my own struggles in life when I realize that at times I have to cause my daughter to experience something she doesn&#8217;t like to help her to learn more, like a time-out, or taking something away from her, or any other discipline.  Being a parent is one of the greatest ways God teaches me about many things.  It is very eye-opening for me for sure!</p>
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		<title>By: Michael Howes</title>
		<link>http://www.emergingparents.com/2007/10/disciplinediscipling/comment-page-1/#comment-59</link>
		<dc:creator>Michael Howes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Oct 2007 02:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah, it&#039;s what I was listening to as I was writing - no explicit connect to the post. I had a choir teacher in high school who would write me letters - actual paper letters - and at the top with the date he&#039;d put what he was listening to as he wrote. And when I read the letter I&#039;d listen to what he was listening to. And when I&#039;d reply I&#039;d do the same. I didn&#039;t have Rachmaninoff and he didn&#039;t have U2, but it added to the communication. Always trying to tap the sensory beyond the visual and auditory. FWIW, he&#039;d also put the weather outside at the time he was writing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, it&#8217;s what I was listening to as I was writing &#8211; no explicit connect to the post. I had a choir teacher in high school who would write me letters &#8211; actual paper letters &#8211; and at the top with the date he&#8217;d put what he was listening to as he wrote. And when I read the letter I&#8217;d listen to what he was listening to. And when I&#8217;d reply I&#8217;d do the same. I didn&#8217;t have Rachmaninoff and he didn&#8217;t have U2, but it added to the communication. Always trying to tap the sensory beyond the visual and auditory. FWIW, he&#8217;d also put the weather outside at the time he was writing.</p>
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		<title>By: brett</title>
		<link>http://www.emergingparents.com/2007/10/disciplinediscipling/comment-page-1/#comment-52</link>
		<dc:creator>brett</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2007 17:21:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think it is just what he is/has been listening to while writing/ruminating?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think it is just what he is/has been listening to while writing/ruminating?</p>
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		<title>By: Mike Clawson</title>
		<link>http://www.emergingparents.com/2007/10/disciplinediscipling/comment-page-1/#comment-39</link>
		<dc:creator>Mike Clawson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Oct 2007 06:49:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Michael, just a question: what&#039;s with the &quot;Soundtrack&quot; thing? I&#039;m a little confused. Is that related to your post in some way? I&#039;m not catching the connection. Please enlighten me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Michael, just a question: what&#8217;s with the &#8220;Soundtrack&#8221; thing? I&#8217;m a little confused. Is that related to your post in some way? I&#8217;m not catching the connection. Please enlighten me.</p>
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